I am going to Baruch!

Hi blog,

So I’ve been away for a looong time! But, this is my last semester… and I wanted to do 2839712038 things at the same time! From summer to now I’ve been working as:

1- Welcome Ambassador on campus
2- Peer Mentor
3- Assistant to the Director of the CUNY Service Corps program

I was invited to travel twice:
1- Peer Mentors Retreat/ Leadership Training  (I don’t have any pics in this computer )
2- Student Leaders Conference at Hudson Valley

Cool picture we took in front of the resort with our friend’s drone

Oh, and I am the President of a student club called I.M.P.A.C.T! 🙂

As for now, I have 2 on-campus jobs (Peer Mentor and Assistant to the Director of CUNY Service Corps) and I also have to manage all club-related issues! In addition of 3 classes + attending tutoring sessions every week. It seems a little crazy, and it is. haha but, I know it is for a good cause. I can’t imagine myself only taking classes and watching the time passing by (especially in my last semester!)

GOOD NEWS: I was accepted to Baruch college for the next step of my education! As an International Student, finding an affordable college is extremely difficult. We CANNOT get any loan, financial aid, grant, anything. We PAY 2 to 3 times more than a regular student (for ex. at University of Michigan, a resident/ citizen pays for their tuition $14.336 while an International Student pays $43.377! It is absolutely insane and sometimes I ask myself why I am doing that hahah).

Acceptance letter from Baruch =)

At Baruch, my tuition will be $14.ooo! (Paid upfront and with some other fees and stuff 😥 ) Inside the CUNY system Baruch is by far the best college and I am really happy I will have the chance to finish my studies there 🙂

After Baruch, I am going to Columbia University (since anything after Masters is extremely cheap – and there are a lot of scholarships for International Students)

My weekend was super fun! On Friday night I went to Chinatown my my boyfriend and we had their famous lobster with ginger and scallion sauce for dinner! We also went out drinking on a bar close by (they sell $5 beer + shots!! ) since I didn’t eat as much for dinner, I felt pretty dizzy!

On Saturday we went to Chinatown again, ate lobster again lol (but at another restaurant w a delicious pork hong kong style) and we walked around to try to find “mooncakes”. We found a super cheap bakery and we got the mooncake + other pastries. After that, we tried to go to the movies to watch “The martian”…but it was sold out 😦 so we ended up stopping at Best buy and coming back home to watch a documentary about a Chinese “ghost city” called ORDOS which was extremely interesting (I LOVE documentaries SO SO much!!)…

Sunday we woke up late and we ate at a Mediterranean place close by and then we went to Starbucks to work on some marketing stuff. When we were done there, we went to another bar/ coffee shop and we headed home. It was super cold out so we just wanted to come back home.

Now I am ready for a new week! This week is going to be crazy as usual, I have to send $100 for Baruch and my acceptance form; + my sponsor docs and I have to show them I have at least $41000 in my account (that is the minimum required for International Students); I will also have 2 midterms + a meeting with other clubs so we can organize a “hunger banquet” , where basically every club will sponsor it (with anything from $200- $500) and all money collected will go to an organization/cause of our choice – that will prob have to decide on the meeting.

Have a great week everyone! Stay warm!

Selfie in my college bathroom! haha 🙂
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F1 Student: Yes, you CAN!



Hello everyone!

Hopefully you are all doing well. The past weeks have been crazier than usual
and I haven’t had a lot of time to write. This month was the closing ceremony
for the CUNY Service Corps at Lehman college. I woke up so early
(whoever knows me well, also knows I am not a morning person…unless I am
getting paid for it, then I can wake up at 3am, 4am… hahah ) to take the
subway all the way from Brooklyn to the Bronx and it took me over 1h and 20
minutes to get there!

I was happy to see my friends and heard the awesome news that some of them got
hired!!
I’ve also had a chance to talk to other international students that were not
able get job afterwards because of visa restrictions.

Every single person I’ve ever met who was not in our f1 visa have no clue what
we go through.
Sometimes international students move to the U.S with little or no English at
all… other times, we face the struggles of paying for our college tuition (no
financial plans, no FASFA, not a lot of scholarships, out-of-state tuition,
etc.) and so much more.

The reality is that we come here alone and we are probably leaving alone
(unless you get married at some point ! lol) that is the reason we need to set
a goal and work as hard as we can to accomplish it.

I am not going to lie and say I was the best student at High School, in fact I
was really bad. I couldn’t care less about my grades and if I got a passing
grade, I was happy. Failures have shown me that I needed to change something in
my life, I had to keep trying, I had to find my passions and set up GOALS.

Moving to the U.S has changed me in a dramatic way. The American system works
differently; not only in terms of college education, but also personal
relations, networking and the paths to get to your dreams. The best way to
improve yourself is moving to a country where you have to conquer you job through
you academic rating and understanding your flaws and limitations.

When I started to participate in college activities and I was exposed to what
was available for me in terms of friendships, jobs and personal development; I
could not stop. Self-improvement is addictive!



  A special thanks (and I will always be grateful for this person) is to Mr.
Harry Mars, who is the Director of student activities of my college. He is
ALWAYS there for students, not only as a director but taking multiple roles;
such as a father for students, a role model, a counselor, a peace-maker and he
will always be his best it doesn’t matter what the situation is. Oh! Just a
funny thing that happened last semester:



When I was the Vice-President of the Beauty and Fashion
Club, we were hosting a big Christmas party for students and the president of
the club got some donations, which were HUUUGE panels from a previous Fashion
show she has attended. Since we did not know who to talk to, one of the club
members just drove this huge truck and dropped everything off on a space that
had an open door (for college deliveries and stuff like that). Since we were
not allowed to do it (but unaware of it) The college security started looking
for us, investigating cameras and everything and they were also decided to call
the city trash collection to take it away hahah

So Mr. Mars was contacted, and after talking to us, we explained that it was
our first club, we were not aware of where to dispose things, college
permissions, etc. As usual, he went above and beyond, he talked to security
with us and did his best to try to accommodate all the stuff we had but
unfortunately the panels were so huge that they couldn’t even pass the
college’s door. But anyways, it was just one situation that Mr. Mars showed his
professionalism and understanding of student needs and at the same time, we
learned what to do and definitely what NOT to do on campus haha. 




Through him, I’ve heard and participate of leadership academies ( B.O.L.T and P.L.U.S) and I’ve made friends for a lifetime. THANK you again Mr. Mars.

Going back to our topic, as an international student myself I faced and
continue to face a lot of challenges every single day. I found out some tips
for international students are they seem to be very accurate!

1- Get involved

One of the best ways to make new friends is to join a club or an
organization. Do you love music or play an instrument? Mix with a group of like-minded
people and maybe even join a band or choir. Participate in sports or some other
activities that you like and have maybe even done before college – Sports are a
great way to meet new people because you all have a common goal. Whatever it is
that interests you, you will have no trouble finding a group or organization,
either on or off campus that you can join and enjoy. Once you are a member,
join group activities and volunteer to help. You will get to know others while
doing good. Club activities easily turn into social activities and you’ll find
yourself going to the movies or for a bite to eat with fellow members.

2- Learn English phrases and slangs

This seems obvious, but the slang is the important part. College students in
America typically don’t speak as formally as the books and guides that teach
non-English speakers, so be sure to research some commonly used phrases and
slang terms among the youth of America. If you hear a phrase that confuses you,
don’t be afraid to ask! It will be easier to make friends with other students
if you show genuine interest in what they’re saying.

3- Tip!

Tipping, while not a common practice throughout the rest of the world, is
expected in the U.S. Restaurants do not typically add gratuity to a bill, so
patrons are expected to tip their server somewhere between 15-20% to reward
them for their service. It is considered extremely rude not to do so, so be
sure to check your bill and tip your waiter if gratuity hasn’t been added.

4- Keep up with pop culture and sports for good conversation topics

College students in the U.S., just like everywhere else, love to talk about
entertainment and sports. Use your free time to read magazines and update
yourself on entertainment news, watch popular TV programs, and learn the basics
of popular American sports like football, baseball, basketball and hockey. Not
only will this help you have conversations with native students, but it will
provide you with an authentic experience of American culture.

5- Befriend American students as well as other international students

I’ve been an international student before, so I understand that it’s often
difficult to break out of that classification and make friends with the locals.
International students are grouped together in living arrangements and classes
at many universities, so you should make a conscious effort to befriend some
Americans. It may seem intimidating, but it’ll give you a more authentic
experience and hopefully provide you with lifelong friends that you can go back
and visit someday!

6- Don’t be intimidated

This advice goes for pretty much anyone studying abroad: no matter who you are
or where you’re from, you’ll be interacting primarily with other college
students, and we all have many similar qualities and interests deep down. Take
the rest of these tips into consideration and get ready for the experience of a
lifetime!


Starting a club on campus and making new friends

Hi friends!

Good news, I decided to post every two weeks on my blog 🙂 So, if you are interested in following an international student’s life, you can subscribe to my blog on the bottom right of the page (so u get email notifications) or you can simply come back here for every two weeks from now.

This semester I took a new challenge. One day my friend texted me asking if I had interest in being the Vice-President for the new club she was creating ”Fashion and Beauty Club”. I always wanted to be part of a club and even though I am a little busy this semester, I thought that it would be a great opportunity to meet new friends while I gain experience and develop my communication skills.
This semester I am taking 14 credits, I am on a volunteering program called P.L.U.S (Partners lending universal support) and I am also working for the CUNY Service Corps. With so many things going on I thought being in a club would take too much of my time…. but fortunately, club meetings are on Wednesdays from 2 to 4 pm and I happen to be free at this time! So I took the challenge. Let’s see how it is going to be =)

To open a club, at least in my college, we need:

1 President
1 Vice President
1 Secretary
1 Treasurer
15 students
1 faculty mentor
Write a club consitution

All executives officers need to be full-time students and have a minimum gpa of 2.5 or 3.0 ( I can’t remember exactly)

We also have to pick up an application inside the student’s activities office and we have to hand it back before the deadline.

Kauna, the club president, designed some flyers last minute, which looked really awesome btw and we handed out a few days before the club application deadline. In only two days on campus, we already had 26 students signed up! We were so happy!!! 🙂

Today, we had the club fair on campus. The club fair is a day when all students have an opportunity to promote their clubs! It was nice, we brought iPads and I designed some name badges. Two of our club members gave a little speech (Henry and Jodi)

Kauna, Jodi, me, Ezinma and Henry
Our name badges! 🙂
Henry and Jodi promoting our club!

Why should we start a club while we are in college? 

People create clubs for all kinds of reasons. If you have an
interest in something, is a great opportunity to meet people who think like you. You may also be
looking for something to put on a grad school application or a resume. You may just want to make some new friends and have a good time.
Nothing wrong with any of that! Think about all the reasons people have
for joining, and try to offer a little something to meet all those
needs. A survey or a discussion about what people want out of this
organization might be a good place to start. 
Hopefully you guys are inspired to open your own clubs!
If you have any questions, you can email me on my contact page

XoXo,

Li.

 

Back to New York and The Life of an International Student :)

     Hi Blog!

   Classes are back, I guess this semester will be fun with some Sculpture class I am taking.My goal its still 3 years away BUT I am NEVER giving up.  :]  
   I know that I probably talked over here about how it is to be an International Student ( f1 student ) in the U.S. Today I made a list about the pros and cons of being an International Student in New York based on my own experience. 




PROS OF BEING AN INTERNATIONAL STUDENT

1- Learning a new language.
 So, you think you can speak English only by watching TV series? come to the U.S! lol When I moved here, I realized I knew nothing. Americans in general speak really fast! 
When you are able to communicate your ideas clearly, discuss random topics with other people and answering the phone (for me, this was one of the hardest things to understand while learning English haha, I would leave the phone ringing and go straight to the voice mail), then you can say you learned the language. It is an awesome feeling. Don’t ever forget: ”Knowledge is power.”

2- Meeting people from all over the world.
You get to travel without moving. How amazing is that? Through my English classes (ESL) I met people from various countries and every time we all sat together to talk, our different accents, experiences and behaviors came along. It was incredible.

3- Going to new places, tasting new food and a culture totally different from yours.
Inside the U.S, plane tickets are relatively cheap and you get to go to places you never imagined that existed. In 3 years and 6 months living here, I’ve been to 11 states and went back (I’ve been there when I was 14y old) to Disney world for Christmas in 2010! I love that place so much!! *__*
Food wise, U.S is not a good place. It is all about fast food, hamburgers and junk food in general. If you don’t watch yourself, it is easy to turn into a ball after living here.

4- Getting maturity and knowing who YOU are and WHAT is your life philosophy/goals.  
You come here alone and your experience shapes your true self.
In my home country I never washed dishes or even folded clothes. I had maids my whole life and,when I came here, I was the maid myself. Was that a bad thing? Absolutely not. Working for others I learned three things for life; 
1- To value every single person. It does not matter if you are my boss, the delivery guy, the nanny or the janitor. Everyone should be respected regardless their positions. 
2- Don’t fight with small minded people. Your work doesn’t necessary define you and you don’t need to prove anything to ANYONE. People who truly care about you, will always support you.
3- NEVER be ashamed of what you do. Work hard, be motivated to grow and learn. Pay off your bills and keeping moving forward.

5- Focusing on a goal and using all your inner strength to pursue it.
Life is short. Without goals we don’t have motivation to enjoy it properly. 🙂

6- Breathing when one more step is concluded and feel proud of yourself after it.
That feeling of satisfaction when all your efforts lead you to the achievement of your goal. 
I remember the day I got my TOEFL results and how happy I felt. 
Also, I remember the feeling of being accepted to an American college! 
English is not my first language and the fact I would talk and study (at an academic level) made me feel so so so happy! 😀  …And I know, for sure, more happy moments will still be coming but in bigger doses 🙂
 

CONS OF BEING AN INTERNATIONAL STUDENT

Unfortunately, and paraphrasing that old saying ”All that glitters is not gold”, living in a foreign country can be extreme challenging (emotionally).

1- No emotional support. 
We are all alone. Fortunately in my case I have a boyfriend which also happened to be my best friend, so every time I am feeling sad, homesick or confused about my goals here, I talk to him and his feedback is an immediate fuel -and also a reminder why I came here at the first place.

2- No real jobs. 
International students in the U.S aren’t allowed to work unless its on campus( after the first year in college and it can only be a maximum of 20 hours per week on the minimum wage ). By the way, I applied for campus jobs since when I got here -guess if they hired me? nope. Americans and who-know-who-inside-of-the-department will be always first option.
(next post I will write about jobs on campus, OPT, CPT and H1b visas).

3- Tuition and Fees are usually 3x more expensive for International Students.
Yes! 3x more and I am not even joking. Oh, I forgot to mention that we are not allowed to have full scholarships and financial aid.

4- Ignorance.
When I tell people I am Brazilian they assume I walk around naked, know everything about soccer, love carnival and live in a jungle. lol Yeah! Sometimes I tell them I have to swing vines to move to one place to another because we don’t have cars and I also have too many friends, but they are all monkeys since they are my close neighbors. lol

5- The Green Card Fairy Tale.
Some people come here with a dream, some people come with goals and some people come with empty ideas. 
Unfortunately some of the first, and definitely 100% of the third group, made us (foreigners) look like ”Green Card Hungers”. 
I think its funny when someone asks me if I am with my boyfriend because of the citizenship or why I don’t get married tomorrow. 
People, listen carefully: If I am on a student visa and going to college, that means I am paying a lot to support myself here, right? Do you know there are many Americans who sell their own ”marriages” with foreigners because they need money? Do you think buying a marriage and selling your dignity is more expensive than going to college and supporting yourself as an International student? The answer is… NO! 🙂 If I wanted to do something ilegally, I would have done, but I am here for almost 4 years and every step I accomplished was with LOTS OF EFFORT, mine and from my biggest supporters:my parents.
Marriage? Yes! I want it, but when we both feel prepared and financially stable for the next step. It does not matter if it is in the U.S, in Japan, Brazil, China…  

6- It is hard.
But you know what? It is not impossible! You chose to study in a different country, so you face different obstacles. Being out of your comfort zone it is not -and it will never be easy! So, after reading all I wrote, watch this video that ALWAYS inspire me to keep moving forward and conquering the world! 😀






  Good Night and Awesome dreams 🙂 Have a nice week.

 


Li